In honor of Women's Equality Day (celebrated on the anniversary of the ratification of the 19th Amendment which granted women the right to vote), we immediately thought of one of our favorite posts, written by Black and originally titled "What Is It About That Girl?" And then Black realized that when "That Girl" went off the air in 1971 (with a Women's Lib episode and a great opening), women were fighting for equality. Now 50 years later, and we're still fighting for equality!
So, whether you're all business (like Black) or all warm and fuzzy (like Red), all women owe a debt of gratitude to "those girls" who fought so hard (and to those who are still fighting) so that we can enjoy more freedom and opportunities today … and, one day, achieve full equality!
| It probably was not the answer Red was expecting when she asked me, "Growing up, what woman influenced you most?" My reply? "That Girl." For those of you who might not remember the sitcom that ran from 1966-1971, "That Girl" was Ann Marie, played by Marlo Thomas. This was in the days before the internet or cable television. (When you had to get up and turn the dial on the television to change channels, and there were only a handful of channels.) And, I did not realize it until decades later, Thomas had formed her own production company, Daisy Productions, to produce and own the series. |
| I will not get into how television influences our perception of the
world. But, I will say that up until that point in time, women in prime-time sitcoms were either someone's wife, someone's mother,
someone's secretary – but never someone independent. Until "That Girl."
She was an aspiring actress living on her own in the big city, New York
City, so it was easy for me to relate as I grew up just a short train
ride away on Long Island. I was about 9 years old when the series started so, initially, had no idea that the size of her apartment or her fantastic wardrobe was unrealistic for a struggling actress. But, it introduced me, much to my mom's dismay, to being fashionable (as did a neighbor who worked as a saleswoman at a high-end women's store), resulting in my first budget (that is a separate story that still amuses me). And, ultimately, it led me to start working when I was a teenager so that I would have money of my own. "That Girl" focused on a single woman's dreams and aspirations. A woman who was ambitious. Willing to try new things and willing to fail. But, what made her truly revolutionary was that she made it acceptable to prioritize work over marriage or children, proclaiming, "But I don't want to get married!" Which, growing up, became my mantra. In the last season, she got engaged to her long-time boyfriend, but the final episode of the series was not them getting married, but about them going to a Women's Liberation meeting. I can remember it as if it was yesterday, wondering at what point she would ultimately call off the engagement. It was not that I believed she would never get married; it was that the timing was not right. She first needed to establish her independence. And, I was determined to be "That Girl." |
| I can't believe how quickly the year's flying by. And that tomorrow's already the fall equinox. |
| I cannot believe that you know that but did not know when Rosh Hashanah fell this year. |
| I got the dates mixed up. And I'll admit I had to look up the fall equinox date because it also varies slightly from year to year. |
| Technically, the equinox is not a day, but rather an exact moment – when the Sun crosses the Equator. |
| Picky, picky, picky. But if I remember correctly, although science class was decades ago, on the equinox, we have 12 hours of daylight and 12 hours of nighttime. |
| Not exactly, but close enough. But, why are we even talking about this? |
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| Because it marks the end of summer and the beginning of fall. |
| Only on the calendar. We live in Texas, so if you use temperature as a guide, fall weather is at least a month away. And, if you are waiting for foliage season, you will have to head north as it does not happen in Houston. Or, settle for some spectacular photos. |
| That's one of the things I miss most, but I love everything about fall – from the early morning "chill" in the air to pumpkin spice lattes (well, really, pumpkin "everything" these days) to the fall holidays. Especially Thanksgiving. |
| OK, but you have always referred to that as the "silly season". That once Halloween arrives, it is full speed ahead until just after the New Year. |
| Thanks a lot. I was thinking about how it's my favorite time of year, and you had to remind me that it goes by way too quickly. |
| So, maybe forget about the Sun and the Equator, and use the fall equinox as a "reminder" to try to stop and enjoy … not only the official beginning of fall but the entire "silly season". |