Photo taken by Red at Prison Break Tattoos
The types of people with tattoos have changed dramatically since we were kids (yes, that was a very long time ago), but even so – many people are surprised to learn Black has multiple tattoos. And each has special meaning. But the one she shares with Red’s younger daughter, Sawyer, is not only meaningful but extremely useful …
| I still can't believe that Sawyer actually did it. I thought it'd be something she'd talk about for a while. |
| I never had a doubt. Once she mentioned it to me, it was obvious she had thought it through. |
| Well, when I got Natasha her first tattoo as her high school graduation gift four years ago, the last thing I ever imagined was that I'd be giving Sawyer the same gift. |
| That is because Natasha has "attitude" and an independent streak, so being the first in the family to get a tat was totally in keeping with her personality. |
| No kidding! Whereas Sawyer's a hard-working student-athlete that graduated from high school with honors. She's very social, and her friends seem as "clean-cut" as she is. All-in-all, not the type you associate with tattoos. |
| You are showing your age. And, stereotyping people. Maybe years ago, only a certain "type" of person got tats – criminals, gang-members, uneducated, rebellious. Now, they have become mainstream, and people who get tats demonstrate many positive traits . |
| I know, and I thought I got over my preconceived notions when Natasha got her first tattoo and then started getting more. But it just seems so out-of-character for Sawyer. |
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Really? Out of character for someone who is very
creative and is working toward a career in the entertainment world? Someone who understands and appreciates the
power of storytelling and the meaning of words and imagery? Someone who knows herself well enough to
carefully select a tat that has a deep personal meaning?
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| Since you put it that way, maybe it's not out-of-character. I guess no more so than you getting a tattoo that matched Natasha's first one and now Sawyer's. |
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The one I share with Natasha is meaningful
because it was my first tat and we share that. This one is meaningful because Sawyer came up with a very creative way
to remedy a "challenge" that we share.
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| Remarkably, it was only a few years ago that she told me that she has trouble knowing her left from her right . At first, I thought she was kidding, but then remembered you don't know your right from your left. But when she recently told me she wanted to get two tattoos, an "L" and an "R", to help her remember, I just laughed. |
| And, when she told me that the other night, I told her I thought it was brilliant. Although, you clearly were no longer amused. |
| That's because I realized she was serious. At one point, she had talked about getting an arrow tattoo as a reminder of her summers at camp, but it was only very recently that she mentioned the "L" and the "R." The idea of a tattoo started as "maybe, one day in the future." But the other night, it became "one day very soon" and yesterday it actually happened! |
| It is human nature that you will always think of her as your little girl, but Sawyer is growing up and about to leave for college. This tat is the perfect graduation gift for her as it acknowledges that you trust her decision-making skills. |
| I know that intellectually. But since it's something permanent, I just wanted to make sure that she wasn't having second thoughts. And that she understood it could lead to future tattoos since we've seen from Natasha how tattoos can become "addictive". |
| Even I have told you that after the first one, I started thinking about getting inked again. However, it never dawned on me I might be "sharing" my second tat with Sawyer. And, at Prison Break, where I got my first one. But, I am thrilled it worked out that way. |
| Which makes it even more special for her, too. So, I'm thrilled for both of you. Especially since both of you will finally know your left from your right. |